
I want to give a soft sign casually
After the boom of softener "Downy" imported from the United States,
Before the concept of sexual harassment, power harassment, moral harassment, and sumo harassment was born, the people involved had no proper awareness. current
It is probably unacceptable to emphasize the constitution of the receiving side and to justify harassment based on such reasons as "because they are nervous or overly sensitive." Just like "sexual harassment, power harassment, moral harassment, and sumo harassment."
Based on this background, I think that Sumehara will be widely recognized as a social problem to some extent in the future.
By the way, "sexual harassment, power harassment, moral harassment, and smo harassment" still lurk in social life, and it seems that some people lack awareness.
As one of the measures to have such people casually notice, we propose the following coined words.
BReIN"
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BReIN"
And the same applies to those who have unintentionally become the source of incense harm, that is, those who practice smearing.
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moreoverthis pageAs introduced in , the act of not adhering to social voice distancing is voice, volume, harassment, or "boi harassment," and the perpetrator is called a "boiler."
However, there are cases where people who are harassing people are extremely unaware of it.
In scenes where special consideration is required in the relationship with the parties,
Assumed Actual Usage ~Smeler Edition~
For example, when you are eating at a restaurant, the smell of the fabric softener of the person sitting next to you is so strong that your meal is ruined.
The limit of my patience... When I finally can't stand it anymore and decide to move my seat, how should I call the clerk and tell him?
I think it's common to say, "I'd like to move to another seat over there, would you mind?"
In that case, it is better to tell the reason why, and the store clerk will understand the customer's feelings, which may lead to a smoother response.
What kind of communication is expected? "
The person next to me who heard this (
Such straight-forward language can create an awkward atmosphere in the store, which can detract from the feeling of luxury and elegance.
on the other hand,"
Since words such as "neighbor", "softener", and "smell" are not used at all, it can be expected to have the effect of suppressing the deterioration of the air in the place to some extent. By the way, it can be used in the same way when the cause of incense damage is perfume or eau de cologne.
from now on
most of the shopkeepers
Then, after moving seats, you can explain to the clerk again, "I'm sorry that the fabric softener (or perfume) of the person next to you is too harsh."
However, this method does not include the original purpose of this article.
It can be said that the hurdles are actually quite high in order to make a complete stranger aware of themselves, and to give a soft and casual sign in a public place. It could lead to quarrels and fights, and in some cases, there is also the concern that it could turn into a real fight.
With the method I introduced this time (soft way of communicating to the store clerk), it is unlikely that the neighbors will have a clear awareness.
However, the time has come when society as a whole shares the term "smell harassment", and at the same time
Of course, there may be cases where direct expressions are allowed if there is a reasonable amount of trust in the relationship with the other party.
Assumed Actual Usage ~ Moraler Edition ~
Couples who have a family relationship. A scene where four people are having lunch at a cafe. The two wives (A-ko and B-ko) are members of a local handicraft circle, and they usually share their troubles with each other.
Ako's husband has been harassing his wife since the corona crisis, triggered by increased work stress. In other words, Ms. A is currently receiving moral harassment. Knowing this, Ms. B consulted with her husband and decided to carry out a certain strategy.
Ako's husband is not aware that he is harassing himself. So it's a strategy to try to get noticed somehow.
So, in order to invite her to lunch and casually tell her, "You're being harassed right now," Ms. B's husband decided to put on a play.
“I heard rumors about the newly appointed branch manager (boss) not long ago, but
I haven't been victimized yet, but my co-workers have become targets. You used to be great
However, marital relationships are complicated. At that time, I didn't know myself
Ms. A's husband, who heard this story, heard it as if it was someone else's problem, but after returning home, Ms. A said, "What did you think about today's story?" While hoping that my husband will understand even a little ....
I won't describe what kind of realization Ms. A's husband actually comes to after this, but in this series of conversations, there are real-life examples of power harassment (power harassment) and moral harassment (moral harassment). Did you notice that the words never came out?
Direct expressions run the risk of driving the other person into a corner, and the atmosphere of conversation tends to be heavy.
Of course, if you use it incorrectly, it will become just slander, so you need to be careful about that, but it's basically the same regardless of what words you use.
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